Series: In the Last Days / Week 1 – Preparing for the Return of Christ

ICEBREAKER

Ask: When you look at the world today—news, culture, technology—does it ever feel overwhelming or uncertain?
• Do you tend to feel more anxious or more hopeful when you think about the future?

SAY:
“We’re living in a time that can feel chaotic and uncertain—but Scripture reminds us this isn’t new. The question isn’t just what’s happening around us… it’s how are we living in response to it?”

SECTION 1: LIVING IN THE LAST DAYS

READ 1 Thessalonians 1:1–3 (NIV)
“Paul, Silas and Timothy, To the church of the Thessalonians in God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ: Grace and peace to you.Thanksgiving for the Thessalonians’ Faith We always thank God for all of you and continually mention you in our prayers. We remember before our God and Father your work produced by faith, your labor prompted by love, and your endurance inspired by hope in our Lord Jesus Christ.”


Discuss

1. How can faith, love, and hope keep you grounded in uncertain times?

2. Why is it important to remember that we’ve been living in the “last days” since Jesus ascended?

SECTION 2: GOD’S LOVE AND POWER

READ 1 Thessalonians 1:4–5 (NIV)
"For we know, brothers and sisters loved by God, that he has chosen you, because our gospel came to you not simply with words but also with power, with the Holy Spirit and deep conviction. You know how we lived among you for your sake."


Discuss

1. What would change in your life if you truly relied on God’s power daily?

SECTION 3: WE TURN FROM IDOLS

READ 1 Thessalonians 1:9 (NIV)
"For they themselves report what kind of reception you gave us. They tell how you turned to God from idols to serve the living and true God."

READ 2 Timothy 3:1–5 (NIV)
“But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God—having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with such people.“


Discuss

1. What are some modern-day idols that can quietly take God’s place?

2. Why is it so easy to justify or overlook idols in our lives?

3. What is one specific area where you need to “turn” back toward God?
   

SECTION 4: WE SERVE THE LIVING GOD

READ 1 Thessalonians 1:9 (NIV)
"For they themselves report what kind of reception you gave us. They tell how you turned to God from idols to serve the living and true God."


Discuss

1. What does serving God with full loyalty look like in everyday life?

2. Where might you be “walking the fence” instead of fully serving God?

SECTION 5: WE WAIT WITH URGENCY

READ 1 Thessalonians 1:9–10 (NIV)
"For they themselves report what kind of reception you gave us. They tell how you turned to God from idols to serve the living and true God, and to wait for his Son from heaven, whom he raised from the dead—Jesus, who rescues us from the coming wrath."


Discuss

1. What does it look like to actively wait for Jesus instead of passively waiting?

SECTION 6: HEART CHECK QUESTIONS

READ Matthew 6:14–15 (NIV)
"For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. "But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins."


Discuss

1. Have I forgiven those who hurt me?

2. Have I shared my faith with those who need Jesus?

3. Am I more focused on this world or eternity?

4. Am I trusting in God’s grace alone to save me? (Eph. 2:8–9)

5. Which of these questions challenged you the most and why?
   

FINAL THOUGHTS:

• What is one “idol” you need to turn from this week?

• What is one intentional way you can serve God this week?

• What is one way you can live with urgency (not fear) starting today?

PRAYER TIME:

• Repentance from idols and divided focus

• Strength to serve God daily

Series: Man, Myth, or Messiah – Jesus: Jesus is Alive Forever? / True or False

ICEBREAKER

• What is your favorite thing about Easter Sunday?

SECTION 1: THE RESURRECTION — WHAT DO SKEPTICS SAY?

Read: Mark 15:47, Matthew 27:64–65

1. The message walked through several theories people use to deny the resurrection:

   • Swoon Theory

   • Wrong Tomb Theory

   • Stolen Body Theory

   • Group Think Theory

   • Hallucination Theory

   ➤ Which of these do you think people today still believe or struggle with most? Why?

   ➤ Why do you think people are skeptical of the resurrection?

   ➤ Have you ever personally wrestled with doubts about your faith? What helped you through that?

SECTION 2: HOW DO BELIEVERS RESPOND?

Read: Matthew 27:26, Psalm 22:14, Mark 15:43, 46–47, 1 Corinthians 15:3–8

1. Why is it significant how much Jesus physically suffered before the cross?

2. What evidence from Scripture strengthens your confidence that Jesus truly died and rose again?

3. The message points out that over 500 people saw Jesus after His resurrection.
   ➤ Why is that important?

SECTION 3: DON’T LET YOUR FAITH BE DETHRONED

1. The message warns not to let your faith be shaken by:

   • Religion

   • Intellectualism

   • Skeptics

   • Disobedient Christians

   • A broken world

   ➤ Which of these challenges your faith the most right now?

   ➤ What helps you stay grounded when your faith feels tested?

SECTION 4: JESUS IS ALIVE — WHAT DOES THAT MEAN FOR US?

Read: 1 Corinthians 15:20, 22–23

1. What does the resurrection mean for your life personally?

2. The message says because Jesus is alive:

   • There is hope

   • This life is not the end

   • We can be forgiven

   • We can have eternal life

   ➤ Which of these do you need to hold onto most right now?

SECTION 5: YOUR RESPONSE TO JESUS

Read: Romans 10:9–10, 13

1. Why is it not enough to just know about Jesus?

2. The message says: “A Savior only saves you if you receive Him.”
   ➤ What does it mean to personally receive Jesus?

3. Why do people delay making a decision to follow Christ?

FINAL RESPONSE MOMENT

• If you’re honest… where are you right now with Jesus?

• Are you confident you’ve “boarded the plane,” or are you still watching from a distance?

Close in Prayer:

• Thank Jesus for His resurrection

• Surrender your life fully to Him

• Ask for boldness to live and share your faith

Series: Man, Myth, or Messiah – Jesus: The Only Way to God? / True or False

ICEBREAKER

Ask: Have you ever strongly believed something… only to later realize you were completely wrong?

Then ask:

• Why do you think people resist absolute truth today?
• Do you think truth should be personal (what feels right) or fixed (unchanging)? Why?

SAY:
“Jesus made some bold and even uncomfortable statements—but none more controversial than this: ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life.’ The question isn’t just what He said… it’s whether we believe it’s true.”

SECTION 1: IS IT NARROW-MINDED TO SAY JESUS IS THE ONLY WAY?

READ John 14:6 (NIV)
“I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.”

READ 2 Timothy 3:16–17 (NIV)
“All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.”

Discuss

1. Why does Jesus’ statement in John 14:6 feel offensive or exclusive to people today?

2. The message says: “It’s only narrow-minded if Jesus is wrong.”
   How does that perspective challenge the way people view truth?

3. What’s the difference between being intolerant and simply believing something is true?

SECTION 2: ARE THERE MANY WAYS TO GOD?

READ Ephesians 2:8–9 (NIV)
“For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast.”

READ Titus 3:5 (NIV)
”He saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit,”

READ Matthew 7:22–23 (NIV)
"On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ 23 And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’"

Discuss

1. Why do people tend to prefer the idea of a “faith buffet”—picking and choosing beliefs?

2. Looking at these verses, what do they clearly say does not save us?

3. Why is it important to understand that salvation is a gift, not something we earn?

4. Which is harder for people to accept:
   • That good works aren’t enough
   • Or that we are completely dependent on grace
   Why?

SECTION 3: WHY WAS THERE NO OTHER WAY?

READ Matthew 26:39, 42 (NIV)
Going a little farther, he fell with his face to the ground and prayed, “My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will.”
“He went away a second time and prayed, ‘My Father, if it is not possible for this cup to be taken away unless I drink it, may your will be done.’”

READ Luke 22:44 (NIV)
”And being in anguish, he prayed more earnestly, and his sweat was like drops of blood falling to the ground.”

Discuss

1. What does Jesus’ prayer in the Garden reveal about the cost of the cross?

2. The message points out that Jesus asked if there was another way—and the answer was no.
   Why is that so significant?

3. How does understanding Jesus’ suffering change the way you view sin and salvation?

4. What stands out to you about Jesus choosing obedience even in extreme anguish?
   

SECTION 4: WHAT DOES IT MEAN THAT JESUS IS THE ONLY WAY?

READ Genesis 3:15 (NIV)
”And I will put enmity between you and the woman, and between your offspring and hers; he will crush your head, and you will strike his heel.”

READ Romans 16:20 (NIV)
“The God of peace will soon crush Satan under your feet.”

Discuss

1. How does the imagery of crushing the serpent connect from Genesis to Jesus’ victory?

2. The message says other religions or efforts won’t lead to salvation.
   Why is it important to be clear on this—even when it’s unpopular?

3. What’s the danger of trying to “mix” Christianity with other beliefs?

4. How does Jesus being the only way actually bring clarity and hope instead of limitation?

SECTION 5: WHAT WILL YOU DO WITH THIS TRUTH?

Discuss

1. The message ends with: “You decide.”
   Why does following Jesus require a personal decision?

2. Why do people sometimes avoid making a clear decision about Jesus?

3. What does it look like in real life to fully trust Jesus as the way—not just a way?

FINAL THOUGHTS:

• What is one area where you need to fully trust Jesus this week?
• Who is someone in your life that needs to hear the truth about Jesus?

PRAYER TIME:

• Thank Jesus for being the only way to salvation
• Confession of sin and dependence on grace
• Boldness to stand on truth with love
• Pray for specific people to come to know Jesus

Series: Man, Myth, or Messiah- God & We Crucified Jesus? / True or False

ICEBREAKER

Ask: Have you ever been blamed for something you definitely didn’t do… or maybe kind of did but didn’t want to admit?

Then ask:

• What’s your go-to move when something goes wrong—own it, deflect it, or disappear?
• Why is it so hard for people to take responsibility?

SAY:
“No one likes to take the blame. But when it comes to the cross, the real question isn’t who’s to blame… it’s what are we going to do with the truth?”

SECTION 1: WHO CRUCIFIED JESUS?

READ Matthew 27:1–2, 24–25, 27–31 (NIV)

“Early in the morning, all the chief priests and the elders of the people made their plans how to have Jesus executed. So they bound him, led him away and handed him over to Pilate the governor…

When Pilate saw that he was getting nowhere, but that instead an uproar was starting, he took water and washed his hands in front of the crowd. ‘I am innocent of this man’s blood,’ he said. ‘It is your responsibility!’

All the people answered, ‘His blood is on us and on our children!’

Then he released Barabbas to them. But he had Jesus flogged, and handed him over to be crucified.

Then the governor’s soldiers took Jesus into the Praetorium and gathered the whole company of soldiers around him. They stripped him and put a scarlet robe on him, and then twisted together a crown of thorns and set it on his head… They mocked him… and led him away to crucify him.”

Discuss

1. The message shows several groups involved (Judas, leaders, Pilate, soldiers, the crowd).
   Which group do you think you would have most related to in that moment—and why?

2. The message says: “No one wants to take the blame… but will you?”
   What does it look like personally to admit, “My sin put Jesus on the cross”?

3. Why is it important that this truth is not about blame—but about truth and grace?

SECTION 2: WHAT DOES THE CROSS MEAN?

READ 2 Corinthians 5:18–21 (NIV)

“All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation: that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting people’s sins against them… God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.”

READ Romans 5:20 (NIV)
“Where sin increased, grace increased all the more.”

READ John 1:12 (NIV)
“Yet to all who did receive him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God.”

Discuss

1. The word “reconciled” means “to exchange.”
   What exactly did Jesus exchange for us on the cross?

2. The message says God is the initiator, not us.
   How does that challenge the idea that we have to “earn” our way to God?

3. Which is harder to accept:
   • That you are not beyond saving
   • OR that others are not beyond saving
   Why?

4. How have you personally experienced that truth?

SECTION 3: WE ARE AMBASSADORS

READ 2 Corinthians 5:20 (NIV)

“We are therefore Christ’s ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ’s behalf: Be reconciled to God.”

Discuss

1. What stands out to you about the phrase: “God making His appeal through us”?

2. How does seeing yourself as an ambassador change the way you live daily?

3. Who is someone in your life right now that needs Jesus?
   

SECTION 4: WHAT WILL YOU DO WITH JESUS?

READ 1 John 4:9–10 (NIV)

“This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.”

READ Colossians 2:13–14 (NIV)

“When you were dead in your sins… God made you alive with Christ. He forgave us all our sins, having canceled the charge of our legal indebtedness… he has taken it away, nailing it to the cross.”

Discuss

Why does the Gospel demand a response—not just admiration?

1. The message says: “A NO decision is still a decision.”
   Why do people try to stay neutral when it comes to Jesus?

2. How does the truth that the same cross that exposes your sin also erases it change how you see yourself?

FINAL THOUGHTS:

• Who will you commit to praying for and reaching this week to invite to Easter?
• What is one step you can take this week to live more boldly for Christ?

PRAYER TIME:

• Gratitude for the cross
• Honest confession and humility
• Boldness to live as ambassadors
• Specific people who need Jesus

Series: Man, Myth, or Messiah- Jesus is the only Jesus / True or False

ICEBREAKER

Ask: What is something people call the “Greatest of All Time” (GOAT) that you actually disagree with?

Then ask:

• What qualities do you think make someone truly great?
• Why do people enjoy debating who the “greatest” is?

SAY:
“Tonight we’re asking a big question:
Is Jesus just another spiritual teacher… or is He truly one of a kind?”

SECTION 1: THE CLAIM OF JESUS

READ Acts 4:12 (NIV) “Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved.”

Discuss

1. When it comes to spiritual leaders, why do you think many people today believe all religions are basically the same?

2. Why do you think the statement in Acts 4:12 can be difficult for people to accept?

3. What does this verse reveal about the uniqueness of Jesus?

SECTION 2: THE TEACHINGS OF JESUS

READ John 1:1 (NIV) “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.”

Discuss

1. Why is it significant that Jesus is described as “the Word” in John 1:1?

2. Many spiritual teachers offer advice or moral wisdom. How are Jesus’ teachings different from simply giving wisdom?

3. What teaching of Jesus has personally impacted your life?

SECTION 3: THE MORAL LIFE OF JESUS

READ John 8:46 (NIV) “Can any of you prove me guilty of sin? If I am telling the truth, why don’t you believe me?”

Discuss

1. Why do you think even Jesus’ enemies struggled to find wrongdoing in Him?

2. How does the moral life of Jesus strengthen the claim that He was more than just a teacher?

Statements About Jesus’ Innocence

John 18:38–39 (NIV)
“I find no basis for a charge against him.”

Matthew 27:4 (NIV)
“I have sinned,” he said, “for I have betrayed innocent blood.”

Luke 23:41 (NIV)
“We are punished justly, for we are getting what our deeds deserve. But this man has done nothing wrong.”

Luke 23:47 (NIV)
“Surely this was a righteous man.”

Discuss

1. What stands out to you about the fact that Jesus’ enemies and witnesses testified to His innocence?

2. Why do you think the Bible includes testimonies from so many different perspectives?

SECTION 4: THE MIRACLES OF JESUS

READ John 21:25 (NIV) “Jesus did many other things as well. If every one of them were written down, I suppose that even the whole world would not have room for the books that would be written.”

Discuss

1. Which miracle of Jesus stands out to you the most, and why?

2. Do you believe God still performs miracles today?

3. Have you ever experienced or witnessed something you would describe as a miracle?

SECTION 5: THE RESURRECTION OF JESUS

The Moment That Changes Everything

Throughout history many leaders have claimed spiritual authority.
But the sermon pointed out that death always exposes the truth.
Every spiritual leader eventually faced the grave.
But Jesus did something no one else in history has done.

He rose again.

Discuss

1. Why do you think the resurrection is the most important claim of Christianity?

The sermon said: “When death came for everyone else, their story stopped. But when death came for
Jesus, the grave could not hold Him.”

2. If the resurrection is true, how should it change the way we live our daily lives?

PRAYER TIME:

• A deeper confidence in the truth of the resurrection
• Faith to trust Jesus as the only Savior
• Courage to share the hope of the Gospel with others
• Friends or family members who are searching for truth

Series: Man, Myth, or Messiah- Jesus is God’s Son / True or False

ICEBREAKER

Ask: Which one do people debate about the most?

A) Politics
B) Sports teams
C) Movies or TV shows
D) Religion
E) Where to eat dinner

THEN ASK:

• Have you ever had a conversation about Jesus that got a little uncomfortable or intense?
• Why do you think Jesus sparks so much debate even today?

SAY:
“Few people in history create as much conversation, controversy, and curiosity as Jesus. The question isn’t if people have opinions about Him — it’s who do YOU say He is?”

SECTION 1: JESUS HAS ALWAYS BEEN CONTROVERSIAL

READ Matthew 26:57–62: “Those who had arrested Jesus took him to Caiaphas the high priest, where the teachers of the law and the elders had assembled. But Peter followed him at a distance, right up to the courtyard of the high priest. He entered and sat down with the guards to see the outcome. The chief priests and the whole Sanhedrin were looking for false evidence against Jesus so that they could put him to death. But they did not find any, though many false witnesses came forward. Finally two came forward and declared, ‘This fellow said, “I am able to destroy the temple of God and rebuild it in three days.”’ Then the high priest stood up and said to Jesus, ‘Are you not going to answer? What is this testimony that these men are bringing against you?’”

1. Why do you think Jesus faced so much skepticism and accusation during His life?

2. Why do you think people still debate who Jesus is today?

3. What are some different opinions about Jesus that you’ve heard from others?

SECTION 2: WAS JESUS JUST A GOOD TEACHER?

Discuss this idea from the sermon:
“Jesus was good, moral, and a teacher — but He could not be just a good teacher.”

1. Why do many people feel comfortable saying Jesus was a “good teacher” but hesitate to say He is God?

2. What are some teachings of Jesus that make Him more than just a moral leader?

3. Why is it important that Jesus is either who He claimed to be or not at all?

SECTION 3: DID JESUS REALLY EXIST?

Discuss the historical evidence mentioned in the sermon.

Historians such as Josephus, Tacitus, and Pliny the Younger all referenced Jesus or early Christians.

1. Why do you think some people still claim Jesus is a myth despite historical evidence?

2. Why is it important that Christianity is rooted in real history and real events?

3. How does knowing Jesus was a real historical person strengthen your faith?

SECTION 4: JESUS CLAIMED TO BE THE SON OF GOD

READ Matthew 26:63–64: “But Jesus remained silent. The high priest said to him, ‘I charge you under oath by the living God: Tell us if you are the Messiah, the Son of God.’

‘You have said so,’ Jesus replied. ‘But I say to all of you: From now on you will see the Son of Man sitting at the right hand of the Mighty One and coming on the clouds of heaven.’”

Discuss

1. Why was Jesus’ answer so shocking to the religious leaders?

2. What does it mean for our lives if Jesus truly is the Son of God?

3. Why do you think Jesus was willing to die rather than deny who He was?

SECTION 5: THE EVIDENCE OF JESUS’ LIFE

READ Hebrews 4:15 :“For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet he did not sin.”

READ 1 Peter 2:22:“‘He committed no sin, and no deceit was found in his mouth.’”

The sermon emphasized that Jesus lived a sinless life.

Discuss

1. Why is the sinless life of Jesus so important to the Christian faith?

2. Why do you think people struggle to believe someone could live without sin?

3. How does Jesus’ perfect life qualify Him to be our Savior?

SECTION 6: THE EVIDENCE OF PROPHECY AND MIRACLES

Discuss the prophecy illustration mentioned in the sermon (1 in 100 quadrillion odds).

1. Why do fulfilled prophecies matter when considering who Jesus is?

2. Which miracle of Jesus stands out most to you personally?

3. Why do miracles point people toward belief — yet some people still reject them?

THE ULTIMATE QUESTION

• Why is this the most important question a person can answer?
• What difference does your answer to that question make in everyday life?

PRAYER TIME:

• Confidence in what we believe about Jesus
• Courage to stand firm in faith
• Opportunities to share Christ with others
• Friends or family members who are still searching for truth

Series: Life Sentence- Indecision

ICEBREAKER

Ask: What takes you longer to decide?

A) Where to eat
B) What to watch
C) What to text back
D) What to wear to church
E) All of the above

Then ask:

• How long does it take your family to decide where to eat?
• Has anyone ever said, “I don’t care, you pick”… and then vetoed every suggestion?

SAY:
“If we can’t decide on dinner without stress… imagine life decisions. We make our decisions — and then our decisions make us.”

SECTION 1: THE STRESS OF INDECISION

READ James 1:6–8: But when you ask, you must believe and not doubt, because the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. That person should not expect to receive anything from the Lord. Such a person is double-minded and unstable in all they do.

The Greek word for unstable means “to stagger like a drunk.”

1.     Where have you experienced that “staggering” feeling in life?

2.    Why do you think indecision causes so much stress?

3.    What usually drives your second-guessing — fear? insecurity? pride? control?

SECTION 2: GOD WANTS TO GUIDE YOU

READ Psalm 23:1–3: The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me to lie down in green pastures; He leads me beside the still waters. He restores my soul; He leads me in the paths of righteousness for His name’s sake.

1.     What does it practically mean that “He leads me in paths of righteousness”?

2.    Do you believe God wants to guide you more than you want to be guided? Why is that hard to trust?S

SECTION 3: ADMIT I NEED A GUIDE

READ Proverbs 14:12: There is a way that seems right to a man, But its end is the way of death.

1.     Why is it difficult for us to admit we need direction?

2.    Where have you followed a path that seemed right at the time but later proved wrong?

SECTION 4: ASK GOD IN FAITH FOR DIRECTIONS

READ James 1:5 “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.

1.     What decision are you currently facing that requires God’s wisdom?

“Wisdom is seeing life from God’s point of view.”

SECTION 5: LISTEN FOR GOD’S RESPONSE

1.     Do you believe God still speaks today? Why?

2.    Which “channel” does God most often use in your life?

• The Bible

• The Holy Spirit

• Other believers

• Circumstances

• Pain

3.    What does staying in “minute-by-minute communication” with God look like practically?

SECTION 6: TRUST GOD WHEN YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND

Read Proverbs 3:5–6 “Trust in the LORD with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; 6 In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths.”

1.     What is something in your life right now that you do not understand?

2.    What would it look like to trust God in that area this week?

THE ULTIMATE QUESTION:

Whose path are you going to follow?

• Your way

• Or God’s plan for your life

PRAYER TIME:

• Pray For clarity in decision-making

• For faith instead of doubt

• For courage to admit you need a Guide

• For trust in areas that don’t make sense

Series: Life Sentence- HURT

CONNECT

When you were a kid, what was the worst physical injury you remember?

The Emotional Chain
HURT → ANGER → RESENTMENT → BITTERNESS

2. Have you ever seen this chain play out personally or in someone close to you?

WHAT NOT TO DO WHEN YOU’RE HURT

· Don’t Ignore the Hurt

Ways we ignore hurt:

• Deny it

• Minimize it

• Procrastinate it

3. Which of these do you tend to do?

· Don’t Run from Your Hurt

· Don’t Hide Your Hurt

· Don’t Worry About Your Hurt

· Don’t Resent Your Hurt

4. How does resentment keep the wound open?

HOW JESUS HEALS OUR HURT

Psalm 23:5 “You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; You anoint my head with oil; My cup runs over.”

Psalm 32 describes the joy of being “cleared of guilt” and living in honesty. What does “complete honesty” with God look like?

1) LET JESUS SETTLE THE SCORE

1. Why is revenge so tempting?

2. What does it practically mean to “leave room for God’s justice”?

Romans 12 reminds us not to repay evil for evil.

3. How does forgiveness free us, not just the offender?

2) LET JESUS SOOTHE MY WOUNDS

“You anoint my head with oil.”

Cast Down Sheep illustration

4. What has helped you heal from deep hurt — fellowship, prayer, worship, serving others?

The message said scars can remind us of:

· The hurt
OR
· The Healer

5. When you look at past scars, what do you usually remember?

6. How can we shift our focus toward God’s grace?

2) LET JESUS SATISFY MY NEEDS

“My cup runs over.”

7. Why do we often expect people to meet needs only God can meet?

8. How does looking to God instead of people change our emotional stability?

PERSONAL APPLICATION

9. Which of the three steps do you need most right now:

1. Let Jesus settle the score?

2. Let Jesus soothe the wound?

3. Let Jesus satisfy your needs?

PRAY

Pray for the needs of the group, community and world

Series: Life Sentence- DAMAGED EMOTIONS

Icebreaker

What’s a “small thing” that can completely change your emotional day (good or bad)?

1) GOD RESTORES MY SOUL

Read: Psalm 23:3 (NKJV) “He restores my soul…”

1. When you hear “God restores my soul,” what do you think that actually means in real life?

2. The sermon said life beats us up with discouragement, fatigue, failure, frustrations, fears. Which one hits you the most lately?

2) LET GOD REMOVE YOUR GUILT

Read: Psalm 38:4 My guilt overwhelms me—it is a burden too heavy to bear.

3. The sermon said: “Nothing destroys a soul faster than guilt.” Why is guilt so powerful?

4. “We all have reasons to feel guilty” — what are common sources of guilt people carry? (past, parenting, marriage, purity, money, anger, etc.)

Read: Psalm 32:1-2 Oh, what joy for those whose disobedience is forgiven, whose sin is put out of sight! Yes, what joy for those whose record the LORD has cleared of guilt, whose lives are lived in complete honesty!

5. Psalm 32 describes the joy of being “cleared of guilt” and living in honesty. What does “complete honesty” with God look like?

3) LET GOD RELIEVE YOUR GRIEF

Read: Psalm 31:9 + 2 Samuel 12:22–24 + Psalm 37:5

6. The sermon says grief is real on earth: loneliness, heartbreak, despair, sorrow, loss. Which one do you relate to most right now?

7. When your heart is breaking, what’s your default response?

1. isolate

2. stay busy

3. “if only” spiral

4. anger

5. or prayer

David’s 3 grief lessons (from sermon)

8. Accept what cannot be changed
What is one thing you’re still trying to rewrite that God is asking you to accept?

9. Play it down and pray it up
What does “commit your way to the Lord” look like during grief?

10. Focus on what’s left, not what’s lost
What’s something God has still given you that you can choose to value in this season?

4) LET GOD REPLACE YOUR GRUDGES

11. What is one “grudge” that is really a wound that needs healing?

Cast Down Sheep illustration

13. What part of the Shepherd’s care hits you the most:

· He comes close
· He speaks reassurance
· He turns you over
· He holds you up
· He carries you until stability returns

14. Where do you need the Shepherd to “lift and steady you” right now?

Pray

“Jesus, restore my soul. Remove my guilt. Relieve my grief. Replace my grudges. I don’t want damaged emotions to rule my life. Break this life sentence and give me Your freedom. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”

Series: Life Sentence- Worry

Icebreaker

1. When you hear the word “worry,” what’s the first thing that comes to mind?

2. On a scale of 1–10, how naturally do you worry? (No explaining yet—just a number.)

Scripture Focus

Read aloud: Psalm 23:1 – “The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.”

Discussion Part 1 / Identifying the Life Sentence

4. The sermon described worry as a “life sentence.” Why do you think worry can feel so imprisoning?

5. The message said: “Some of us are prisoners of our own world.” What does that look like practically in everyday life?

Discussion Part 2 / The Shepherd vs. Worry

7. According to the message, what are the four things a shepherd does for the sheep?

o Provide

o Protect

o Guide

o Correct

Which one do you personally struggle trusting God with the most—and why?

8. Psalm 23 says, “I shall not want.” How is trust connected to freedom from worry?

9. The sermon said worry is often practical atheism—acting like God won’t keep His promises. How does that statement sit with you? Challenging? Eye-opening? Uncomfortable?

Discussion Part 3 / Lordship Check

10. The sermon made this clear: If Jesus isn’t Lord, He isn’t Shepherd. What does it practically look like to let Jesus “call the shots” in daily life?

11. The test of lordship included:

o Does Jesus know you?

o Do you know Him?

o Do you hear His voice?

o Do you follow Him?

Which of these feels strongest in your life right now? Which feels weakest?

12. In what areas are you most tempted to take control back from God?

Discussion Part 4 / From Worry to Prayer

13. What do you usually do first when worry hits—panic or pray?

14. Philippians 4:6 says to pray about everything. What’s something you’ve been worrying about that you’ve never actually prayed about honestly?

Discussion Part 5 / Living One Day at a Time

16. What does “living one day at a time” look like for someone facing:

o Financial pressure?

o Family stress?

o Health uncertainty?

Group Prayer Time

· Invite group members (voluntary) to briefly name one worry.

· Close in prayer.

Series: Mixed Emotions - Angry Like Jesus Message 3 of 5

Icebreaker

1. When you think of anger, what’s the first word or picture that comes to mind?

2. Share a funny Sunday-morning-chaos story. What usually sets off frustration in your household?

Discussion

Read Ephesians 4:26–27 (NIV) 26 “In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, 27 and do not give the devil a foothold.

3. What does it mean to “give the devil a foothold”? Where might there be cracks in the door in your life?

Read Matthew 21:12–14 (NIV) 12 Jesus entered the temple courts and drove out all who were buying and selling there. He overturned the tables of the money changers and the benches of those selling doves. 13 “It is written,” he said to them, “‘My house will be called a house of prayer,’ but you are making it ‘a den of robbers.’” 14 The blind and the lame came to him at the temple, and he healed them.

4. Who was being mistreated, and what system was Jesus confronting?

5. Why is it important that Jesus flipped tables — not people?

LEARNING FROM JESUS’ ANGER

6. When are you most tempted to “flip people” instead of the issue?

7. What helps you slow down so your anger is loving, not destructive?

PERSONAL REFLECTION

8. Where do you need supernatural strength to forgive or to let something go?

APPLICATION

9. Where is God calling you to stand up for someone who is hurting or overlooked?

10. What “tables” might Jesus want to flip in your life—habits, attitudes, or systems?

CLOSING PRAYER

• Thank God for canceling our sins, instead of canceling us.

• Pray for unity in our families, Life Groups, and church.

Series: Mixed Emotions – Message 2 of 5 Finding Relief from Anxiety

Icebreaker

• What’s something that tends to make you anxious or stressed out?

• How do you usually respond when you start to feel anxiety rise?

Discussion: “Even Jesus Battled Anxiety”

Read Mark 14:32–34 (NLT)

32 They went to the olive grove called Gethsemane, and Jesus said, “Sit here while I go and pray.” 33 He took Peter, James, and John with him, and he became deeply troubled and distressed. 34 He told them, “My soul is crushed with grief to the point of death. Stay here and keep watch with me.”

1. Why do you think it’s comforting to know that Jesus Himself experienced anxiety?

2.  Pastor Don said, “Feeling anxiety in a moment doesn’t mean you’ve let God down.” How does that truth help reshape your view of faith and mental health?

1) TALK TO YOUR FRIENDS

3. How can having the right community (godly friends, Life Group, church) make a difference when we’re struggling with anxiety?

4. Pastor Don said, “It’s not good to be alone.” What can we do to make sure no one in our church walks through anxiety alone?

2) TALK TO YOUR FATHER

Read: Philippians 4:6–7 (NLT)

6 Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. 7 Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.

Read: Mark 14:35–36 (NLT)

35 He went on a little farther and fell to the ground. He prayed that, if it were possible, the awful hour awaiting him might pass him by.36 “Abba, Father,” he cried out, “everything is possible for you. Please take this cup of suffering away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.”

5. How does anxiety act as a “signal” reminding us to pray instead of something to feel ashamed of?

6. Share a time when you felt peace after praying about something that was worrying you.

“If it’s big enough to worry about, it’s big enough to pray about.”

7. What’s one thing this week you need to take to God in prayer?

3) TALK TO YOUR FEELINGS

8. What are some truths from Scripture we can speak over our emotions when we feel anxious?

9. Pastor Don said, “Align your feelings with your faith.” What does that look like practically for you this week?

Wrap-Up: From Anxiety to Peace

• What did Jesus do when He faced anxiety? → He talked to His Friends, His Father, and His Feelings.

10. Which of those three do you need to focus on most right now — and why?

Pray Philippians 4:6–7 aloud over the group:

“Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything… His peace will guard your hearts and minds.”

Series: Mixed Emotions-Message 1 of 5 — Where Is God When You Hurt? November 2, 2025

SCRIPTURE

Luke 7:11–16 (NLT)

11 Soon afterward Jesus went with his disciples to the village of Nain, and a large crowd followed him. 12 A funeral procession was coming out as he approached the village gate. The young man who had died was a widow’s only son, and a large crowd from the village was with her. 13 When the Lord saw her, his heart overflowed with compassion. “Don’t cry!” he said. 14 Then he walked over to the coffin and touched it, and the bearers stopped. “Young man,” he said, “I tell you, get up.” 15 Then the dead boy sat up and began to talk! And Jesus gave him back to his mother. 16 Great fear swept the crowd, and they praised God, saying, “A mighty prophet has risen among us,” and “God has visited his people today.”

OPEN

1.     Describe how you’re feeling in one word (no cussing 😄).
Why do you think that word surfaced for you today?

DISCUSSION

2.     What’s the difference between looking at someone and seeing them?
Where do you feel unseen or unnoticed in your life right now?

3.     In verse 13, Scripture says Jesus’ heart overflowed with compassion.
How does it help you to know Jesus feels deeply when you’re hurting?

4.     Jesus touched the coffin — crossing religious, cultural, and social lines.
What “lines” do you think people sometimes feel keep them from Jesus today?

5.     The widow lost her husband and her only son — she lost support, security, and identity.

Where have you personally felt loss, and how did it impact your hope?

PERSONAL APPLICATION:

6.     The sermon repeated, “Just one touch.”
In what area of your life do you need one touch from Jesus right now?

7.     Which emotion hits closest to where you are today?

o   Unsettled

o   Anxious

o   Afraid

o   Depressed

o   Hopeless

8. What would it look like to invite Jesus into that emotion?

PRAYER FOCUS:

8.   Pray for:

o   Those who feel unseen

o   Those who feel hopeless

o   Those needing a breakthrough
Ask God to give someone in the group hope back this week.

Built to Last – Week 7 – Joy in the Generosity Journey

ICEBREAKER: “The Chocolate Chip Cookie Test”

If you were stranded on a deserted island and already had food, water, shelter, and an iPhone — what would you value the most?
Follow-up: What’s one time someone’s generosity surprised or blessed you unexpectedly?

BIG IDEA:

• “Life is so much about generosity — because what you keep is all you’ll ever have, but what you give, God can multiply.”

• Generosity isn’t just about money. It’s a mindset and a journey of joy.
Each of us is moving somewhere on the generosity journey — from “It’s all mine,” to “The first belongs to God,” to “I’m a living sacrifice.”

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:

1. Three Mindsets of Generosity

Read Luke 12:15 and Proverbs 3:9–10.

1. What are the three mindsets described in Scripture and the message?

◦ It’s all from me and for me.

◦ The first belongs to God.

◦ I’m a living sacrifice.

2. Which mindset do you most identify with right now — and what might help you take the next step?

3. How does the principle of “firstfruits” (honoring God with your first and best) change your view of generosity?

2. The Decision to Give

Read 2 Corinthians 9:7.

“Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.”

1. What stands out to you about the word decided?

2. Why do you think God cares about the attitude behind our giving?

3. How can giving become an act of joy rather than obligation?

4. What’s the difference between giving to get something in return versus giving from your heart?

3. God’s Promise to Provide

Read 2 Corinthians 9:8–10.

1. What does this passage teach us about God’s ability to provide?

2. How does “God supplying seed to the sower” connect to the idea that money is a seed, not just a tool?

3. Where do you see God calling you to trust Him more deeply with your finances, time, or talents?

4. In what ways have you experienced God’s multiplication when you chose to give?

4. The Joy of Generosity

Luke 6:38 says,

“Give, and you will receive. Your gift will return to you in full—pressed down, shaken together to make room for more, running over…”

1. What does this verse reveal about God’s heart toward givers?

2. How have you seen joy increase in your life or someone else’s through generosity?

3. Why do you think God “loves a cheerful giver”?

4. What’s one way you could bring joy to someone through generosity this week?

CLOSING PRAYER:

“God, thank You that You are generous and that You invite us to be like You.
Help us move from holding tightly to what’s ours, to freely giving what’s Yours.
Teach us to trust You with our first and best.
Fill our hearts with joy as we give, knowing You can do more with what we sow than with what we keep.
Make us cheerful givers who reflect Your heart to the world.
Amen.”

Built to Last - Week 6 - Love Builds (2 of 3)

ICEBREAKER: “Bag or Barn?”

If someone handed you $100 and said you had to give it away this week — who or what would you bless, and why?

BIG IDEA:

• “Many of us don’t have a money problem — we have a mindset problem.”
  We either live with a Bag Mindset (we don’t have enough) or a Barn Mindset (God has given us more than enough).

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:

1. The Macedonian Example

Read 2 Corinthians 8:1–2 “In the midst of a very severe trial, their overflowing joy and their extreme poverty welled up in rich generosity.”

• What stands out to you about the Macedonian churches’ generosity?

• How could they be “very poor, yet irrationally generous”?

2. The Bag Mindset

Read Haggai 1:6. …You eat, but do not have enough; You drink, but you are not filled with drink; You clothe yourselves, but no one is warm; And he who earns wages, earns wages to put into a bag with holes.

• What does the “bag with holes” represent in modern life?

• How can this “consume → lack → fear” cycle show up in your finances or habits?

• What might help you begin breaking that cycle this week?

3. The Barn Mindset

Proverbs 3:9–10. “Honor the Lord with your wealth, with the firstfruits of all your crops; then your barns will be filled to overflowing.”

• What is the difference between the “bag” and “barn” mindset?

• What does it mean to “bring your first and best”?

• How does trusting God with the first 10% (tithe) change your perspective on money?

• Have you ever experienced God’s blessing after putting Him first?

4. Breaking the Cycle

Look at the two cycles below and discuss:

Bag (Scarcity)

• God supplies

• We consume

• We lack

• We fear

Barn (Abundance)

• God supplies

• We give

• God multiplies

• Faith builds

1. Which cycle are you more familiar with — and what would it take to move to the other side?

2. What is one small step of generosity that would stretch your faith?

CLOSING PRAYER:

“God, thank You that You are love — and that love gives.
Help us move from a scarcity mindset to an abundance mindset.
Teach us to give our first and best and trust You to bless the rest.
Make us irrationally generous like the Macedonians — and use our giving to build Your kingdom.
Amen.”

Built to Last - Week 5 - Love Builds (1 of 3)

Icebreaker:

• When was a time you wanted to give or help someone but didn’t follow through? What held you back?

Scripture Focus:

• John 3:16 – “For God so loved the world that He gave…”

• 2 Corinthians 8:6–7 – “So we have urged Titus… to encourage you to finish this ministry of giving... Since you excel in so many ways—in your faith, your speech, your knowledge, your enthusiasm, and your love for us—I want you to excel also in this gracious act of giving.”

• Isaiah 32:8 – “But generous people plan to do what is generous, and they stand firm in their generosity.”

• Mark 12:41–44 – The Widow’s Offering

1. Giving Is Spiritual

• Paul called giving a “ministry.” How does that change the way you view generosity?

• What does it mean to “excel in the grace of giving” in your own life?

2. Love Gives

• If “love gives,” what does that tell us about God’s nature—and about how we’re supposed to live?

• How does your giving reflect your love for God and others?

3. Generous People Give Willingly

• Why does Paul emphasize finishing what you start?

• What’s the difference between giving out of guilt and giving out of willingness?

4. Generous People Give Proportionately

• How can we give “in proportion to what we have”?

• Why do you think God looks at our hearts more than the amount we give?

5. Generous People Give Sacrificially

• What stands out most to you about the widow’s gift?

• When was the last time you gave your time, heart, or resources in a way that truly cost you something?

Application

• What’s one step you can take this week to plan to be generous (Isaiah 32:8)?

Prayer:

Lord, thank You for showing us what love looks like through Your generosity. Help us to give willingly, proportionately, and sacrificially.
Make us people who plan to do what is generous and stand firm in our generosity. Amen.

Built to Last – Week 4: “Growing People Change”

Icebreaker

• Share about a time you tried to improve yourself (a new diet, workout, skill, or habit). How did it go? What did you learn about change from that experience?

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:  

1. Understanding God’s Love & Trust

• Read 1 John 4:16-19. How does trusting God’s love change the way we see ourselves?

• Why is trust so essential for a healthy relationship with God?

• Have you ever treated your relationship with God like a “gym membership” — showing up but not letting it transform you? How did that feel?

2. Growing People Change

• “Healthy things grow.” Why is growth (and therefore change) necessary in the Christian life?

• Read 2 Corinthians 5:17. In what ways have you already seen God’s new life at work in you?

• What fears or obstacles make it hard for you to embrace change?

3. Embracing Discomfort

• Why do you think God allows tension, trials, and discomfort in our lives?

• Read 1 Peter 4:12-13, 16. How can suffering actually strengthen your faith?

• Our tolerance for tension determines our potential for growth. Where do you see tension in your life now, and how could God use it to grow you?

4. Listening to God’s Whisper

• Read I Kings 19:12-13. How do you usually “hear” from God?

• What practices help you slow down, be still, and listen to His voice (Scripture, prayer, worship, silence)?

• Job said, “Though He slay me, yet will I trust Him.” How can you trust God even when you don’t understand His plan?

5. Living Out God’s Love

• Read 1 John 3:18. Why is it important that our love for God and others is visible in action?

• Serving others affirms their value and activates our growth. How have you seen that happen in your life or others’ lives?

• What is one practical way you can serve someone this week?
  

Application / Challenge:

• Which of the four steps (Trust God’s Love, Embrace Discomfort, Listen & Trust, Live Out God’s Love) do you need to focus on most right now?

• What’s one small change you can commit to this week to grow spiritually?  

Prayer Prompt:

Invite group members to share one area where they need God’s help to grow and change. Then pray using Philippians 1:6, thanking God for finishing the good work He has started in each person.

Week 3: Saved People Serve People

Icebreaker

• Share about a time someone served you in a small, unexpected way. How did it impact you?

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:  

1. Saved People Serve People

• In the message we heard, “When you serve more, you take less.” What does that phrase mean to you personally?

• Why do you think Jesus links greatness with serving (Matthew 23:11)?

2. Bring a Lunch – The Example of David (1 Samuel 17:17-18)

• David rose to prominence when he killed Goliath, but his story starts with him bringing lunch to his brothers. How does this challenge the way we view “small” acts of service?

• Can you share an example of a time God used something “behind the scenes” in your life to bless others?

• What small, unnoticed way could you serve this week?

3. Carry a Cross – The Example of Simon of Cyrene (Mark 15:16-22)

• Simon was compelled to carry Jesus’ cross. He didn’t plan on it; it interrupted his day. How do you respond when God interrupts your plans with an opportunity to serve?

• Serving can sometimes be costly. What’s a “cross” you’ve carried to help someone else?

4. Use a Towel – The Example of Jesus (John 13:4-5)

• In the Upper Room, Jesus washed His disciples’ feet—something usually done by a servant. What stands out most to you about this act?

• Where in your life do you see “proud hearts and dirty feet” —places where humble service is needed?

• What does it look like to “wash feet” in today’s world?

5. Sheep and Goats – Serving Jesus by Serving Others (Matthew 25:34-46)

• Jesus said, “Whatever you did for one of the least of these … you did for me.” How does this change the way you view serving in your church or community?

• Look at the examples given (feeding the hungry, visiting the sick, welcoming strangers). Which one do you feel most drawn to right now?
  

CHANGING YOUR MIND  

“And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds…” – Hebrews 10:24

Week 2: What Now? – Found People Find People

INTRODUCTION

We belong with God and, until He found us, we were lost. Now that you have been “found in Christ,” consider our most pivotal core value: FOUND PEOPLE FIND PEOPLE. 

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:  

1. Sunday’s message helped us to understand that FOUND PEOPLE FIND PEOPLE. Take a few moments to talk about some key takeaways from the message. 
   
   

2. Read John 3:16. God lovingly and selflessly gave up His own Son Jesus to make sure you and I were found. God now finds us in His grace rather than His judgment. How does it make you feel to know that God’s own Son Jesus was not too much to give up to find you?
   
   

3. When did Jesus find you? Share with the group how Jesus found you and how your life is different today. Also share what it is about your own story that makes sharing your faith with others easier.
   
   

4. Who do you know that needs to be found?
   
   

5. How do you plan to show Jesus to your friends with greater excitement and clarity this week? For this question, “Just showing them through my actions” is a good answer, but try to be more specific.

NEXT STEP 

As you think about your “next step” in sharing your faith, what do you know you need to do? Do you need to invest in someone’s life? Do you need to invite someone to church? Or do you need to share your own story of what Jesus has done for you? Tell the group which of these steps you plan to take this week and, if possible, with whom.

CHANGING YOUR MIND  

Philip said to him, “Come and see.” John 1:46

Week 1: Built To Last–You Can’t Do Life Alone

Week 5 - Faith When Life is Murky

Starting Point

Jesus communicated the importance of other people in Matthew 22.  

Matthew 22:37-39 (NIV)

Jesus replied: ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’  

Pastor Don said, “We love an invisible God by loving a visible neighbor.” 

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:  

1. Having read Matthew 22:37-39, do you believe it is possible to love God without loving other people well? Why or why not? What does loving other people look like? 
   
   

2. One of our Core Values is “You Can’t Do Life Alone.” Do you agree with this? Why or why not? 
   
   

3. The message Sunday said that we are created FROM community, FOR community. What does this mean? (See Genesis 1:26 as a reference) Genesis 1:26 Then God said, “Let us make mankind in our image, in our likeness…
   
   

4. In what ways does Sin shatter Community? What are some ways to go about restoring community where sin has shattered it? 
   
   

5. Read Matthew 12:46-50. How does Jesus redefine family? Have you “bought in” to this new family? How do you think this impacts your earthly and biological family? Do you love them more or less? 

NEXT STEP 

Read Hebrews 10:24-25. Consider the words, “Spur one another on” and “encouraging one another.” I have two challenges for you this week: the first is to state one specific way you plan to “spur on” your LifeGroup family to follow Jesus this week. The second is to write down on a piece of paper or in your phone at least one name of a person you could invite to be a part of your LifeGroup this next week. You don’t have to pressure them, just share how LifeGroup has impacted you! 

CHANGING YOUR MIND  

And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds…  Hebrews 10:24